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nemesisbecoming From: nemesisbecoming Date: July 31st, 2004 02:01 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Commenting on the 'why?' question...

I would agree that women have their own set of little lies they tell their men, however. My favourite? "Ooh, you're so big."
LOL just chalk that one up there with "No, Baby, you're not fat." it's just the little dance we genders share.

I know I'm on the bigger side of average, but c'mon ladies, I'm not so big that it warrants comment.
Well, granted you don't need the unncesaary ego boost, but just like there are certain things about women you notice and remember, penis size is ours. We can quite easily recount our experiences with the side note of either small, average or large. Maybe we can't quite recall with a couple of them - if so, he wasn't large. That's that. Side note, there is now a video music director seen frequently on TV. I watch him next to my BF recalling when I rolled around with him a couple of times when he was just a Production Assistant. And although I never want BF to know of that relationship, I feel no loss when I see the new lifestyle the Director is now living. All I keep thinking is "small dick". AHEM

We can still be romantic and passionate without having to lie to each other or to ourselves.
A relationship that would be a joy to achieve, bottom line.

It's an odd coincidence that she should call while I composing a reply about cheating.
*stares at the screen with wide eyes. Errie music plays in the back of her head. She whispers loudly to the screen 'Her ears are BURNIN!' then loudly snaps her laptop shut, freaked out at the coincidence as well*
jeffjustin From: jeffjustin Date: July 31st, 2004 04:33 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Commenting on the 'why?' question...

I can understand the idea of a man's size serving as a categorizer, a means of sorting us guys out in your minds. I've not-so-jokingly said that I might not remember every woman's name, or even her face, but I probably do remember her pussy. Interestingly, the self-same ex that called earlier used to talk about other guys she'd been with when we were lying in bed and tell me whether they were bigger or smaller than me depending on whether she wanted to boost my ego or get under my skin. I would act appropriately pleased or dismayed, but I never let on that her game meant nothing to me - I never went in for that comparison thing. Even more interestingly, after we divorced, she was back in my bed several dozen times, rather than those bigger guys she'd talked about, because I knew what she liked and she knew it.

BTW her call was predictably about money - it's the only time I ever hear from her - when she wants money. She cost me nearly everything I owned back then and she thinks she can squeeze me for some more. I laugh in her general direction.
nemesisbecoming From: nemesisbecoming Date: July 31st, 2004 04:38 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Commenting on the 'why?' question...

Interestingly, the self-same ex that called earlier used to talk about other guys she'd been with when we were lying in bed and tell me whether they were bigger or smaller than me depending on whether she wanted to boost my ego or get under my skin.
LOLOLOL *laughing heartily*
That's just nuts... (eep, no pun intended)
jeffjustin From: jeffjustin Date: August 1st, 2004 08:09 am (UTC) (Link)

Re: Commenting on the 'why?' question...

You'd have to meet her to appreciate it fully - she is truly a work of art. I'm afraid she got a little crazed after our daughter was born and just never got right again. The good news is that she's so long ago and so 3000 miles away.
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