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Some More Cheating Cuz Things Are Slow Here
This one is a little more esoteric because it's a double cheat. When I think of where I was emotionally when this happened, I'm somewhat amazed that I made it through that period without self-destructing.

I was working as a regional manager for a company that did consulting with other businesses. I traveled perhaps 50K miles a year in-state and I was in other people's businesses all the time. I met a woman at one of my client companies and we hit it off. I had lunch with her from time to time and I got to know her a bit. She was having a rough time with a divorce and she bent my ear to no end about that.

Rather out of the blue, one day at lunch she asked me if I was interested in having an affair with her. Right between the salad and the entree. What was I supposed to say? I said sure, why not? I really couldn't think of any reason not to. So I fit her into my already busy schedule and things went along for a couple of months. Then I met another woman, similar situation. She'd dropped some hints about being interested in something, but she wasn't as bold as the other one. One day she won some tickets to a basketball playoff game on a radio call-in and she called me up and invited me to go with her. OK. Message received.

We never even made it to the game, because we decided during dinner that each other looked like dessert. Back to her place for a fun roll in the hay, and then home to the wife. Well, not quite. I had to pass my other girlfriends house on the 45-minute drive home from the second one's house, so since I was on that side of town, I rang her up on the mobile and stopped by for a quickie on the way home. It occurred to me on the way home that I was cheating on my girlfriend and my wife. The girlfriend knew about the wife, the second girlfriend knew about the wife, neither of them knew about the other, and the wife apparently didn't know about either of them. Whew.

Now, home to the wife.

It was late, tired and I smelled of two women, so I thought it best to sneak in and not disturb her. My ass had no sooner hit the mattress than she rolled over and announced that she's horny and I better get with her so she can sleep. OK. Once more for the night, then blessed sleep.

What a freakin' whore I was.

You Feel: just the facts, ma'am
You're Listening To: Get Up Kids - Holy Roman

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Comments
hakuai From: hakuai Date: May 20th, 2004 08:26 am (UTC) (Link)
no shower? please tell me you showered?
jeffjustin From: jeffjustin Date: May 20th, 2004 06:28 pm (UTC) (Link)
Gee, I'd like to but...I suppose it's safe to say that the rest of the story will support my saying that my judgement skills were somewhat disabled at the time. Ouch.
hakuai From: hakuai Date: May 21st, 2004 04:23 am (UTC) (Link)
OMG!!!! sorry its my sickness.
jeffjustin From: jeffjustin Date: May 21st, 2004 06:05 pm (UTC) (Link)
Well, it's not like I real proud of it - but, it happened.
From: (Anonymous) Date: July 14th, 2004 07:55 am (UTC) (Link)
I did that before.. whew. My friends would be horrified if they knew the depths of my depravity- so I'm commenting anonymously, but you'll know my by my initials! I SO have to join this group, and crosspost once I get my other journal going with my best friend, who's as depraved as we are. Sexual Olympics anyone?

TCV
jeffjustin From: jeffjustin Date: July 15th, 2004 06:15 pm (UTC) (Link)
You know, it's not depraved - it's just something that most people are so conditioned against that they want people like me to feel that we're depraved. I don't feel depraved until I get around people, whether friends or strangers, who hold me in harsh judgment. What they don't realise is that my sexual relationships have been some of the most honest, direct and uncomplicated ones in my life. Wanting that is not depraved.

From: imaginarysmile9 Date: May 22nd, 2004 10:55 pm (UTC) (Link)

Drunk and Disorderly

Me and my friends got really trashed, I took so many shots of vodka. Well I ended up making out with my boyfriends best friend, right in front of him. Of course my boyfriend was like the only sober one there. But damn. His best friend was HOT, so it was worth it.
jeffjustin From: jeffjustin Date: May 23rd, 2004 09:10 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

Did your boyfriend break up with you for doing that? Was his best friend available at the time?

Just curious.
From: imaginarysmile9 Date: May 24th, 2004 05:14 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

No my boyfriend didn't dump me for cheating on him. I cheated on him 4 more times in 3 months..I still ended up breaking up with him. Yeah his best friend was avaliable at the time, but now were just friends.
jeffjustin From: jeffjustin Date: May 24th, 2004 08:19 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

The other times you cheated, was it because you were you drinking, or was it just because? Do you think you'll ever get eith the best friend, or are you two stuck in friend-zone now?
From: imaginarysmile9 Date: May 28th, 2004 01:14 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

I was drunk a few time when i cheated. No me and the friend are still friends...on ocward turms but hey whatever. I've been grounded sorry it took long to reply....I might be drinking tonight. I got so fucking high the day of finals...it was kick ass. but hey i gots to go later
jeffjustin From: jeffjustin Date: May 28th, 2004 11:32 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

That cheating with a friend thing just fascinates me.

I worked with a woman in a setting where we had to rely on each other for our safety and in order to do our jobs - kind of like cops, only we weren't cops. We'd worked as partners for four or five years and had become very tight when she had something happen to her that she was really upset about and her husband, the big shot auto exec, was out of town on a four or five month assignment and she needed someone to talk with and, long story short, we ended up sleeping together one time and it was a mutual thing and we both felt awkward and uncomfortable afterward, but I think we both cared enough about each other that we were still able to stay friends.

I still trade email with her and it's been a long time since that happened and every once in a while she'll say something about it with a kind of wistful tone. it's just really hard to keep on being friends under those conditions.

On an unrelated note, she used to loan me her nice red Corvette on weekends when Id have a hot date. She is such a sweetheart.
From: imaginarysmile9 Date: May 29th, 2004 12:21 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

How old are you? Sleeping with a marred woman..you have to be older..I'm only 14...I'll be 15 in july..
jeffjustin From: jeffjustin Date: May 29th, 2004 05:13 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

Let's just say that I'm older and leave it at that.
From: imaginarysmile9 Date: May 30th, 2004 08:12 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

I'm not good at leaving things alone...Are you older then 30?
jeffjustin From: jeffjustin Date: June 1st, 2004 11:30 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

Yes, I am. Study your pop culture from the 60's/70's and you'll know that being over 30, I shouldn't be trusted - or so they say.
From: imaginarysmile9 Date: June 3rd, 2004 09:35 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

I donno...I trust everyone, untill they give me a reason not to..then I am just a bitch.
jeffjustin From: jeffjustin Date: June 3rd, 2004 10:43 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

Well, that was kind of a tongue-in-cheek thing. It's just an old cultural icon from a clapped-out era. I suspect it was as hokey back then as it is now and it just seemed like a halfway clever, smart-ass thing to say, given your question - and I can be a bit of a smart-ass and sometimes halfway clever while doing it.
From: imaginarysmile9 Date: June 4th, 2004 08:52 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

Well right now i have to pee...i am really fucking wasted...hehe i love alcohal...weeeee
jeffjustin From: jeffjustin Date: June 5th, 2004 06:51 am (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

Don't let me slow you down then.
From: imaginarysmile9 Date: June 5th, 2004 09:57 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

hehe..i was so fucking drunk last night...i threw up and blammed it on the dog...and got away with it... got to go
nemesisbecoming From: nemesisbecoming Date: July 30th, 2004 09:56 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Drunk and Disorderly

LOLOL... I hear handcuffs, buddy
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