November 28th, 2006 03:25 am (UTC)
My definition of Cheating is:
1. You're married, engaged or in a definite, committed relationship.
2. You have sexual relations or other intimate contact with a person, other than the one you've committed to (as in point #1) and did this without their informed consent.
If you and your s/o both agree to participate in an orgy, it's not cheating on each other.
By that definition, you were definitely not cheating.
BTW. It's probably best not to discuss past sexploits, unless there is a good reason to do so. IE, if you contracted a STD. You don't need to volunteer all the details, but don't withold important and relevant facts.
If you have genital herpes, hiv, etc. that would be relevant!