November 6th, 2004 07:24 am (UTC)
Re: Fellow Cheater
Interesting and I'm sure you still love your wife, just a little something for yourself on the side.Recently I have become interested in a guy I serve.I still have a boyfriend and have realised that even though, I felt bad for the last cheat, I still need a new partner very year or so.
Anyways, I'm thinking of telling him.MAybe just coffee first, it's hard to know where it will go or if the person isn't going to be completely nuts.I.E.- too inmature or has past issues to handle sex.Because ultimately that's what I want from him in the end.
Ideally it eventually fades away and staying friend's with the person is the best situation turn out.Mind you it's a 22 year old I think around that age and I'm thirty and quite experienced.So there are several possibilities.I also don't want to hurt the guy either.Once a week is what I'd like from him.But it may make him want me more or not at all.That's one of the reason's I'm scared to ask to, rejection.
I wrote here earlier the stroke dad story still posting anonymously for safety issues.